Spectrummy Mummy

Asperger's, Allergies, and Adventures Abroad

Making Connections

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As you read this, I will be finishing packing, getting the kids ready, heading to the airport, taking our first flight, making our connection in the busiest airport in the world(!), or on our second 16-hour flight.  Or I’ll be a stranger in a strange land, figuring out what to do next.  At least for me, that is familiar territory.

When Pudding was first diagnosed, I struggled to learn a foreign language littered with phrases like “echolalia” and “proprioception.”  Eventually I became fluent in this new language, even making up my own translations for some of those tricky phrases.  This language would be how I communicated with Pudding’s educators, therapists, and doctors; but to communicate with my girl, I had to learn to speak her language, just as she struggles to learn mine.

During the last two years, I made connections with those who could help me navigate this strange land.  In particular a teacher and doctor whose care and attention extended beyond Pudding to our entire family.  They acted as my guides so I didn’t get too lost.  Eventually I found community resources, and made sense of insurance regulations and somehow managed to find a path to follow.  It wasn’t always the easiest journey, but I could stumble my way along.

I would be lying if I said I’m not intimidated by starting all over again.  Making new connections, and finding trusted professionals who have my family’s best interests at heart.

At least once I began blogging, I found that there were so many of us, we could find our way together.  By reaching out to one another, we make new connections, form a community that doesn’t have geographical boundaries.  I have friends walking the same path, holding my arm if I should happen to stumble.  I’m grateful beyond measure for the friendship and support I’ve found through this blog.

Connections matter.  A few weeks ago a friend from university announced he was going to be the manager of a new independent cinema in England.  I immediately though about how great it would be if they could do the sensory showings that we enjoy here in the US, and suggested to him that they do just that.  He said he’d get back to me, and earlier this week he wrote back saying that when they open later this year, the cinema will be offering sensory showings every three weeks.

If that can be done in the UK, why not South Africa?  Why not everywhere?  We just need to keep making those connections.

I want to thank you for reading, commenting and sharing this blog over the last year.  It has been an incredible journey, that in many ways is only just beginning.  Time for me to go and make my connections.  Time for more adventures abroad!

If you would be so kind, I would love it if you could visit here and vote for Spectrummy Mummy as one of the top autism blogs.  Many thanks!

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Written by Spectrummy Mummy

August 1, 2011 at 6:03 am

4 Responses

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  1. You are changing the world, and I have no doubt that you’ll make great connections in SA. I hope today’s connections go smoothly for you.

    akbutler

    August 1, 2011 at 6:36 am

  2. Hope your travel goes as smoothly as it can!

    Bakingmommy

    August 1, 2011 at 7:43 am

  3. Can’t wait to read all about adventures in SA

    Anonymous

    August 1, 2011 at 3:09 pm

  4. Thinking of you all and hoping for a brilliant flight and calm, manageable children..

    It’s strange but I feel like I need to say “I’ll miss you” as absurd as that is!


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