Spectrummy Mummy

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Rewarding

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 Spectrummy Mummy

I remember my parents being much more successful with the whole not-laughing-when-the-child-is-naughty thing. Oh well, practice makes perfect!

 

 The above was my Facebook status update on Saturday.  Pudding got sneaky again.  Remember this incident  where Pudding rewarded herself for using the bathroom?  It seems she felt inspired to do it again.
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A couple of days ago I noticed that Cubby’s treats were not in the usual place.  I found them, and stashed them up high in a different cupboard, and followed up by locking the bathroom door.  I’m sure at the time I chuckled to myself about how I can outsmart my five-year-old.  Then I thought no more about it.
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Recently we moved Pudding to her own bedroom.  We’d hoped that sharing a room with her brother would help her sleep.  We were wrong, so after my parents left we changed the spare room into Pudding’s room.  Pudding loves this new room.  The best thing about the room, is that one wall is entirely mirrors.  She can bounce on the bed while watching her reflection- Pudding heaven.  It was also by these mirrors that I was alerted to Pudding’s latest tinkering.
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While Spectrummy Daddy was putting her brother down for a nap, we played in her room.  She announced she needed to use the bathroom, and did so leaving the door open.  With the angle of the mirrors, I couldn’t see her on the toilet, but had an excellent view of her afterwards.  I watched her wash and dry her hands (unprompted).  Then I saw her go into the cupboard below the basin and put something she found there in her mouth.
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It doesn’t take somebody as smart as Pudding to work out that these were the very treats I’d hidden in her brother’s bathroom.  To get to them, she had to find and use the correct skeleton key to get through the door.  Then she would have pulled a chair from my bedroom, down the hall, through Cubby’s room and into the bathroom, before getting up into the cupboard for the treats.
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All this is very impressive in a child with significant fine motor delays and motor-planning difficulties.  But more impressive to me was the fact that she returned the chair to my room, and stashed the treats where she thought I wouldn’t see them.  Aren’t those some excellent theory of mind skills right there?  I’d have been tempted to reward her, had she not in fact just rewarded herself!
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Really, all I could do was to laugh.  It was impossible to discipline her.  When Spectrummy Daddy came out of Cubby’s room, I hoped I might call on him to have a stern word.  Of course, he burst out laughing even harder than I did.
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In the end, neither of us could quite bring ourselves to tell her off, but I thought I might at least remove the treats- they were supposed to be Cubby’s, after all.  As he was asleep, I didn’t return them to his room, but hid them in my own bedroom.  Later I returned to find nothing but an empty packet.
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I know, I know.  I’m going to have to find some way to check her before she moves on to world domination.  Right now, though, life is far too rewarding to change anything.
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Written by Spectrummy Mummy

February 27, 2012 at 4:35 pm

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  1. I think Pudding is my idol!! Clever and cute – a very good combination!! How can you be mad at that??

    joeysmommy

    February 27, 2012 at 6:02 pm

  2. Made me smile.

    Lisa B

    February 27, 2012 at 6:05 pm

  3. What an amazing little lady. I give her a whole bag of skittles for style points!

    Karla (Mom2MissK)

    February 28, 2012 at 3:58 pm

  4. Oh, yeah, world domination definitely up next. I love that she did this! And I would have laughed too, and secretly felt a bit delighted in her killer spy skills!

    Patty

    February 28, 2012 at 10:57 pm

  5. Pudding ROCKS! What a smart little cookie!

    Nomads By Nature

    February 29, 2012 at 11:24 am

  6. I had to laugh with you! Sometimes they make it so difficult to discipline by their genius or cuteness levels! And now I would also consider the gauntlet thrown – you must outsmart her mummy! Get busy! 😉

    solodialogue

    February 29, 2012 at 11:33 pm

  7. I burst into laughter FARRRR too often when my daughter works her magic. It’s more fun than trying to discipline she who cannot be disciplined. ahhhh 5 year old girls!

    sortedmegablocks

    March 4, 2012 at 7:23 am

  8. […] had been snipped.  Close by were some kitchen scissors, that had been placed out of reach, but nothing is out of reach to Pudding.  It was only a matter of time before she cut her hair again, and that was the time she […]


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