Spectrummy Mummy

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Living abroad with a special needs child

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So what I didn’t tell you when I wrote my letter to editors last week, was that it wasn’t the first time I’d tried to get magazines to address their lack of coverage of special needs issues.  From the beginning of my involvement in the exchange with Parents magazine, I started paying attention to web sites and magazines to see if they fared any better.  On the whole, they didn’t.  So every time I tried and failed to find what I was looking for, I’d contact them with my complaint, and wait for the response.

By and large, I’m still waiting.  That is the problem with being invisible, of course.  It takes a lot of us saying the same thing to get noticed.

One time I clicked from a fellow foreign service blogger’s site to Expat Arrivals, and again, I noticed there was no mention of special needs issues within the expat community.  I was unsure if I should approach them in the same way.  After all, special needs parents make up a small proportion of expats.  But then I thought about it.  In Pudding’s preschool autism class of just 6 children, one girl had been born and raised in the Middle East, and a second child (besides Pudding) is about to move overseas this summer.  A further two boys are first-generation immigrants.  These are issues affecting 5 out of 6 children in her class.  I know this area is more geographically mobile than many parts of the US, but that still makes a sizable group of children sharing similar experiences to Pudding, not to mention the many children of Foreign Service Officers who have special educational needs like our daughter.

To my surprise and delight, the editor emailed me back, and acknowledged the lack of coverage in this regard.  Then she asked for my help in providing an article about our expat experiences.  Expat life is about letting go of your expectations, and finding the enjoyment in a different way of living.  There are highs and lows, but it never gets boring.  Does that sound familiar to my fellow special needs parents?

Here is the link if you’d like to read more, and here are other posts I’ve written about my take on living the expat life.

Written by Spectrummy Mummy

June 7, 2011 at 1:15 pm